8 ways to get a guy to genuinely like you within a few weeks

8 ways to get a guy to genuinely like you within a few weeks
Wondering how to take things to the next level with your crush?

Wondering how to take things to the next level with your crush? Follow these steps!

There’s no doubt in your mind that you like him and want to start dating him as soon as possible. Now that you have been obsessing over your new crush for the last few days, weeks or even months, the big question is, how do you get him to like you and reciprocate your feelings?

After all, there’s nothing more heart-wrenching than unrequited love and nor do you want to end up in the dreaded friend-zone either. Read this guide on how not to get friend-zoned.  Here are eight ways to get his attention and make him realise what an amazing person you are.

1. Give yourself some tender loving care (TLC)

Grooming is extremely important when you’re trying to make a good impression – whether it is for a new job or a relationship. Invest in yourself by buying good quality and well-fitted clothes for yourself that suit your body type. You need not splurge on expensive parlour treatments but do the basics like getting rid of unwanted hair regularly and going for a pedicure once a month. Here are grooming tips to charm your date.

If you have a desk job, take up some form of exercise like swimming or Zumba classes that you enjoy and push yourself to become physically active. Regardless of whether you’re overweight or not, exercising regularly will make you a far more confident person, so your efforts will pay off.

2. Ask him out on a date

If both of you have been chatting on WhatsApp or stay in touch through SnapChat, Facebook or any other social media platform, take full advantage of it. You need not follow ancient dating rules like waiting for the guy to ask you out. Some guys are just shy or clueless about how to initiate that conversation. So take charge of the situation and ask him if he is free to hang out. Have you wanted to try out a new restaurant or pub? Make the effort and ask him if he would be interested in joining you. Trust me, he will say yes! Here are ways to know someone has a major crush on you.

3. Avoid over sharing

Once you have bagged the date and managed to get his undivided attention, engage him in an interesting conversation. Ask him questions about his parents, his job and what he’s truly passionate about. Everyone loves to talk about themselves, so encourage him to open up and be a good listener.

Don’t hesitate to ask him personal questions (other than how much he earns!). However, remember not to reveal too much about yourself in the first date itself. You need not try too hard to come across as interesting or different by telling him something you would only share with your best friend. There’s nothing wrong with talking about your ex if it comes up during the conversation but avoid going too deep or showing any indication that you’re still not over the failed relationship.

4. Read more and stay up to date on popular culture

Don’t waste all your free time by sitting glued to your smartphone. Instead of waiting for him to text you, use your time more constructively by reading up on things that interest you both, online and offline. There’s nothing sexier than a woman who reads and is aware of what is going on in the world.

If you don’t like to read, watch more movies, documentaries and popular TV shows. With all this exposure, you will be able to have more intelligent and deep conversations with him which will help in building intimacy and keeping him interested.

5. Flirt with him

You need not send him too many emojis to let him know you’re interested in him. Engage in witty banter and when you meet him, maintain eye contact and casually touch his arms and shoulders while talking. If he is very attractive, don’t compliment him on his appearance. He already knows he’s good looking and is probably tired of being told that he is tall or has a great body. Instead, compliment him on certain aspects of his personality that you like.

6. Improve your texting game

When things are going great between the two of you, it is easy to go overboard and bombard him with text messages throughout the day. Avoid sending him more than two to three messages at a time until he replies. Don’t be the one to always text first even if it means waiting for a few days for him to initiate the conversation. Look out for these signs when you should stop texting your crush.

However, do follow-up with him on important things. For instance, did he mention he has a job interview next week? Make it a point to wish him luck and show some support. He will appreciate that.

7. Win his friends’ approval

It can be nerve-wracking and even slightly scary to meet his friends for the first time. Take it on as a challenge and observe how he is around his friends. Make an effort to be a part of their conversations and get to know his friends better. If you’re accepted by his friends, you can be confident that things will work out between the two of you!

8. Have your own life

Don’t always be available for him. Meet your girlfriends every week and show him that you have an active social life. No matter what, don’t text him or talk to him on the phone for more than a few minutes when you’re out with your friends. Make time for your hobbies and me-time as well. If he observes you have a life of your own and you’re popular among your friends and colleagues, chances are he will put in more effort be a part of your life.

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